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What Lip Licking and Yawning Really Mean: Understanding Canine Calming Signals

April 18, 2025

What Are Calming Signals?

First introduced by canine behavior expert Turid Rugaas, calming signals are the body language cues dogs use to defuse tension—either within themselves or between others. These signals include:

  • Lip licking

  • Yawning

  • Turning the head away

  • Sniffing the ground

  • Slow movements

  • Sitting or lying down suddenly

Each one can be a dog’s way of saying: “I’m feeling uneasy. Please give me space or reassurance.”

🐾 Recommended Reading: On Talking Terms with Dogs: Calming Signals by Turid Rugaas — This 73-page book is a must-read for any dog parent serious about understanding their pup’s inner world.


Why Learning Calming Signals Matters

For decades, dog training was mostly a one-way street: “I give the commands, and you follow.”

But dogs aren’t robots—they’re emotional beings with needs, preferences, and communication styles. Learning to interpret calming signals can:

  • Deepen your bond with your dog

  • Make training easier and more effective

  • Reduce problem behaviors linked to stress

  • Help prevent bites or fear-based reactions

A dog who feels heard and understood becomes more confident, less anxious, and more connected to their human.


Start Watching for These Signals Today

Next time you’re out on a walk or welcoming guests into your home, watch your dog closely. Are they:

  • Licking their lips?

  • Yawning when they’re clearly not tired?

  • Turning away from people or other dogs?

Each signal is a piece of a puzzle—and when you start putting the pieces together, you’ll discover what your dog has been trying to tell you all along.


Final Thoughts

Understanding calming signals is more than a training tool—it’s a relationship tool. When you start responding to your dog’s emotional cues, you’ll unlock a new level of connection based on empathy, respect, and trust.


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Why a Loose Leash Matters During On-Leash Dog Introductions

April 17, 2025

🐾 Why a Loose Leash Is Crucial for On-Leash Dog Introductions

Introducing dogs while they’re on-leash can be tricky—even risky—if not done correctly. One of the most effective ways to support a smooth and safe introduction is by keeping the leash loose.


🦴 The Problem With a Tight Leash

Dogs are extremely sensitive to leash pressure. A tight leash doesn’t just restrict movement; it also increases emotional tension. When a dog feels physically restrained, it may perceive the other dog as a threat, triggering defensive or reactive behavior.

Tension travels down the leash—literally and figuratively. It alters body language, raises arousal, and limits a dog’s ability to use calming signals or make natural choices during greetings.


🐶 How a Loose Leash Supports Canine Communication

A loose leash lets dogs:

  • Move more fluidly

  • Read each other’s body language

  • Choose their proximity and pace

  • Use natural greeting behaviors like curving and sniffing

These choices allow for more organic and stress-free interactions. Dogs can signal comfort or discomfort in ways that are easy for the other dog to interpret—leading to better outcomes and fewer misunderstandings.


🚶‍♂️ What to Do If You Feel the Need to Control

It’s common to feel nervous during introductions, but tightening the leash is rarely the answer. Instead, control the environment, not the dog. Try these strategies:

  • Create more space by walking parallel at a distance

  • Observe both dogs for relaxed body language

  • Only allow closer contact if both dogs remain calm and loose

When in doubt, back up and give the dogs more room to breathe.

Pro Tip: A calm handler with a slack leash helps build a calm dog. That calmness is contagious.


📄 Free Download: On-Leash Dog Introduction Guide

Want a printable version of these tips?
👉 Download my free on-leash dog introduction guide (PDF) to help your next greeting go smoothly.

🐶 Why We Misread Dog Emotions—And How to Get Better at Reading Them

April 9, 2025

🐶 We Think We Know What Dogs Feel—But We’re Often Wrong

Most people believe they can tell how a dog is feeling just by looking. But research shows we’re far less accurate than we think. In fact, humans commonly confuse signs of fear or stress with happiness or excitement—a misunderstanding that can lead to inappropriate interactions or even dog bites.


📊 What the Research Says

In summary, the research says, we’re not very good at reading dog emotions:

  • People misread dog emotions more often than expected

  • Facial expressions are frequently overemphasized

  • Even dog owners were no more accurate than non-owners

  • People with professional dog experience (like trainers or vets) had significantly better accuracy

  • A couple of cited studies:

📖 Human Perception of Fear in Dogs Varies According to Experience with Dogs

📰Humans are bad at reading dogs’ emotions – but we can learn to do better

 

🧠 Why Humans Misread Dogs

We tend to project human-like emotional signals onto dogs—especially in the face. But canine facial expressions don’t carry the same emotional detail as ours.

Dogs rely heavily on body language, including:

  • Tail carriage and movement

  • Body posture (loose vs. stiff)

  • Ear position and motion

  • Lip licking or yawning

  • Turning away or avoiding eye contact

A wagging tail doesn’t always mean a happy dog. Look at the speed, height, and tension of the wag.


👥 Experience Matters—But It’s Learnable

It’s not just instinct. People with hands-on experience—trainers, behaviorists, veterinarians—outperform casual dog owners in emotion recognition. This means that learning to read dogs accurately is a skill, not something we’re born with.


✅ How to Get Better at Reading Dog Emotions

Just review the known signals dogs give us and then spend some time observing dogs:

  • Focus on full-body cues—not just the face

  • Look for clusters of behavior (e.g. stiff body + tucked tail + whale eye)

  • Pause before petting and ask for consent (watch for leaning in or backing away)

  • Watch the context—what just happened before the change in behavior?

  • Practice observation in low-stress settings before testing yourself in busy or dog-dense environments

Review the Stress Escalation Ladder by Turid Rugaas. If we apply the contents of this document to the picture in this post, we can see that this Husky is in the FOCUS stage; he is no longer displaying the lower-level conflict behaviors, has a closed mouth and is in a freeze. This dog ends up scaring this kid with an air snap. He was lucky.

Review the Dog Fear Posture Poster by Dr. Sophia Yin DVM MS. The dog in our post is not showing any signs of fear. What you do see in this poster is a dog that looks similar to the dogs in Internet videos whose owners believe they look guilty for naughty behavior when in reality those dogs are displaying fear in reaction to the owner’s tone of voice.

 
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